If you are thinking about, or in the process of joining a new golf club, or have recently done just that, you may worry about how you might fit in and feel part of it. Follow these tips you'll have nothing to fear

If you are considering joining a new golf club you may be worrying about how you’ll initially settle in and feel that you are part of it.

It’s not just first time members that get this feeling, it’s common for everyone, even those of us who have been members at three or four different clubs in our lifetimes.

So don’t put off joining a new golf club for another year, instead read our top 10 tips on how to settle in to your new surroundings.

1- Make an effort

When you are at the club having a knock, don’t just pack up and head home afterwards. Take time out to have a walk around the club introducing yourself to some members. Ask a few questions and try and start up some conversations.

2 – Get on the putting green

You don’t just have to turn up and go straight to the first tee. Take time to visit the practice putting green, pitching area or warm-up nets, where it’s very easy (and normal!) to start up small talk with fellow players, especially when you miss a 2-footer!

3 – Appearance

Make sure you look the part. Don’t turn up on the 1st tee with an untucked shirt and trainers. Having a smart appearance will only help you make a good impression, especially if you rip one off the tee too!

4 – Join a group

If you’re playing on your own and there’s a group following you, ask them if you can join them. Similarly, if you see someone about to tee off on their own, ask them if they want to join you.

5 – Watch your etiquette

If you manage to pick up playing partners like this, make sure you give them no reason to dislike you. So mark your ball and avoid other peoples’ lines, be sure to avoid any tantrums and, above all, avoid slow play by always being ready to play when it’s your turn. Do all this from the start and you’ll settle in quickly.

6 – Get your handicap

Play a few rounds with a friend or any members you meet and get them to sign your scorecards for submission to the handicap secretary. Once you have three cards signed you can get your official handicap and that lets you enter club competitions…

7 – Enter a club competition

There’s no better way to meet people on the course than playing in competitions, either by adding your name to a start sheet at an allotted time, or by entering into any randomly drawn competitions. As with meeting anybody in life, some you’ll get on with an others you might not. If you find someone you click with and relax around, don’t be shy about getting their contact details so you can arrange a few social games together.

8 – Play in a Texas Scramble

On each hole in a Texas Scramble your team of three or four select the best tee shot and all play a second shot from there. Then you select the best second shot and all play a shot from there, and so on. In our opinion, this is the best format for encouraging camaraderie. It also lets you relax and move on from bad shots, because terrible shots are quickly forgotten and great scores can be carded.

9 – Play well!

This isn’t as easy as our other suggestions, but there’s no better way to settle in with a group of new playing partners than to play well. If you shoot a good score and knock in a few 20-foot putts you’ll settle in straight away.

10 – Buy a round

After your game don’t dash off if possible. Make your way to the clubhouse and get a round in for whoever you’ve been playing with. This will show your generous and friendly nature, and should mean you get bought a few the next time you play!


  • Jeremy Leese

    My dad was looking to join a new club earlier this year, so I went with him to play a round at both of his local choices to gauge the course and the club. At the first, we’d played 9 holes (I’m a 6hcp and was 2 over and my dad, a 12 and a bit rusty, was three back of me) in under 1.5 hours when a member (two groups back) started to berate us for slow play (the group behind us had no issues) and really upset our round. We let the next two groups, including his, through so that we could have some peace the rest of the way round, but it clearly shook my dad (just back to playing again after a minor stroke) and coloured his judgement of the golf club itself. At the second, we had a great round, the pro was helpful in finding a buggy for my dad (given his recent health issues), the members were friendly and helpful on and off the course. Purely as a golf course, the first was slightly better, but it’s not hard to guess which one he joined, is it?

  • Yeti owner

    years ago I joined a new club to celebrate retirement. On the very
    first hole I had a disagreement with a guy on the 9th hole who was
    nearly hit by my drive and apparently hadn’t heard my shout of fore. He
    berated me for lacking etiquette. As he walked away I pointed out that
    I had shouted, and pointed out that I at least played golf on my own
    fairway as he had wandered onto the first.

    After 18 holes I returned to the clubhouse to discover that I had been reported to them!

    I did enjoy my year at the club, I found far too many people like him
    and was pleased to revert back to my own club, where everyone is rude
    (banter) in the nicest possible way 🙂
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